2012 Spring Semester - Week 4 Advanced
Hi everyone,
This week we are going to talk about forgiveness. Many people hurt are feelings when they do something we don't like, and we have a choice to forgive them or not.
This week's question is: Have you ever forgiven a friend for doing something that they did wrong? Or did you not forgive them, and are no longer friends with them?
Good luck!
Hapsteacher
when I was 15, I had best friend.
I`m happy, joyful in school with her. I ate lunch, went to the snack bar with her everyday.
I couldn't imagine my school life without her.
One day suddenly she played another person.
so I was alone. I was very upset, and blue.
I couldn't forgive her, because she completely left me.
and then one day she apologized to me.
I was upset but I love her as best friend, so I forgave her.
when I was 15, I had best friend.
I`m happy, joyful in school with her. I ate lunch, went to the snack bar with her everyday.
I couldn't imagine my school life without her.
One day suddenly she played another person.
so I was alone. I was very upset, and blue.
I couldn't forgive her, because she completely left me.
and then one day she apologized to me.
I was upset but I love her as best friend, so I forgave her.
I don't have any chance to forgiven someone, because I never hate people.
Even If I have a experience to fight with my friends I'm trying to being not to fight or not to hate.
Because I realized from the experience that hate or fight is too waste thing about my time and feeling.
After all I'm always think positive even their have a somethings worng.
Everyone Can do the mistake as same as I can do.
Maybe I'm trying Every single time I make a Forgiven about small mistake from others .
I shared a room with friends while I stayed in Australia. Although there was many things which are not easy to understand each other, I just tried to understand it because we need to live together. However, my friend often complained something that she didn't like. She didn't try understand me and just too selfish. When she complained something to me, I just stand it and apologized at first. As time goes by, I couldn't endure it anymore and moved out the house. Every time she upset, I got sick of apologizing to her. After that, even though I was quite close to her I drifted apart with her.
Because friends are most important because I've ever thought.
and if friend is mistake, the person forgive friend.
the person is really friend.
so I forgive my friend.
When I was freshman , I made an appointment to meet my friend.
At that time, I just finish my part time job so I feel really tired.
But when I arrived meeting place, he didn`t show up at the appointed time.
I wait around 1 and half hour, and I was extremely angry.
But he explain his situation and It was reasonable, so I forgive him.
I have forgiven my friends.
Generlly, if my friends did wrong, I forgive them.
Because I think that bad things must resolve very fast
between friends.
However I didn't had forgiven my friend.
When I was 17, my friend told me "I think You never didn't
do that eventhough you try to do it."
I heard that, I had broken heart and disappinted to her.
So I decided that I was no longer with her.
Then, even today I don't keep in touch with her and meet her
I know forgiveness is not easy.
There was a group of friends when I was 17.
Even though I could remember the number of my friends exactly, we were quite friendly.
However, someone started to speak ill of us and we noticed that.
Of course we got angry, we stopped talking her and she became alone before we graduated from high school except me.
Only me forgave her and we still keep in touch until now.
I lend some money to my co-worker 4 months ago. We were a bit close to each other and he told me safely to lend him
some money. The amount of money was very little. So I lend him gladly and he promised he would pay me back a week later.
After 1 week he still haven't given me the money and he quit the job. After he called and said he sent the money to my account and
I checked but the money wasn't transferred. We had a phone call but he didn't admit his fault. So I just said it ok and after that
we don't call each other anymore. I am just upset by his attitude and disappointed.



Always my friends talk to me. " you are so kind."
I keep doing nice to people and usually i forgive them. because i don't like trouble with my friends.
but actually, i'm not generous.
one years ago, I'm trouble with my one of best friend. we are kindly each other.
however, one day she didn't went appointed place with me. So I'm very upset, we wrangle with each other.
But she going on break with my appointment. I am no longer friend with her.